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Thursday, July 27, 2006

Thank you!

I want to thank everyone for all the kind comments and email. I know a couple of you have called, but I'm just not answering the phone right now.

They said someone who works for me complained and said that what I was writing was creating a hostile work environment. I've been thinking about that all night. I haven't looked back through my archives, but I really can't think of anything that I wrote that would fit that description. I was always very positive about my company. And as far as I knew everyone from work who read my blog enjoyed it. Several even guest posted at one point.

Frankly, I think my bosses were snowed. What I think happened was that someone with an ax to grind brought all this up as an act of revenge. And maybe they didn't even want me to be fired, maybe they just wanted me to get in trouble.

I don't know. I could be wrong. It is just so frustrating not knowing, you know? They wouldn't give me any particulars beyond that.

I keep thinking they are going to call me and tell me they made a mistake and ask me to come back. I guess I'm still in a bit of shock. I've never been fired before, and I really thought I would retire there.

Six years of hard work and dedication to the cause of blood donation. Poof. At least I have the knowledge that my work helped a lot of people during those six years.

I made a trip out to my car with some personal belongings as I cleared out my office, and when I got back my computer was already gone. Nice.

Thanks again guys. I really mean it.

91 Comments:

Blogger Dick Small said...

You're welcome Fab. You're great.

7:26 AM  
Blogger Lorraine said...

I can't get around it, just can't...I understand people can get offended, but they know you, they should have known that you could be approached and all this nonsense would not have happened. It could still happen that the person responsible makes a retraction. I sincerely hope so.
Companies are so afraid to get sued by anyone, they take the easiest stand. SHAME! They should tell you what you allegedly said that got you fired!

7:44 AM  
Blogger CrankyProf said...

I'm guessing it was one of the (useless, underhanded, cowardly, craven) little chickies -- possibly even one who has guest-blogged. One tiny thing you wrote pissed her off/disgusted her, and she, in a fit of self-righteous and empty-headed indignation, tattled like a two-year-old, rather than cowboy up and talk to you about it personally.

"Hostile work environment" is code for, "Something has made someone uncomfortable, and they dont have the balls to deal, so we're being proactive."

Screw that noise. Would you want to work with cowards?

I'm round, should you need a (relatively) objective ear. I also run a resume seminar -- if you want to go over yours one-on-one and polish yours, e-mail me.

7:51 AM  
Blogger kattbanjo said...

I just cant beleive it. That is horrible. I am sooo sorry. hugs for you

7:56 AM  
Blogger Big Pissy said...

I agree with crankyprof.....I thought about this a lot last night, Sweet Man and I talked about it.....and we came to the same conclusion.

Whoever it was should be feeling like shit right now and outted by whoever knows they did it.

You're a great guy, you were a good employee and you didn't deserve this.

7:58 AM  
Anonymous BertyMo said...

I don't get it . They can fire you because someone said something about you? Without confronting you beforehand? Without having any information or opinion of themselves whatsoever?Is it as easy as that? The fact that you are a loyal, hardworking employee does not mean anything?? I Do Not Get It. Not. At All.

8:06 AM  
Blogger anne altman said...

the blogosphere sympathizes

8:17 AM  
Blogger Billy said...

Dude, I am like, flabberfuckinggasted... CP just clued me in, what a load of shit.

Personally, I'd read the "handbook"; and then talk to someone about a wrongful termination suit.

You know where to find me if you wanna chat or maybe grab a brew.

And oh yeah, a pirate's curse on the scurvy dog that brought the wrath on you. Maybe you wanna do a FuckYou!Friday post.

8:31 AM  
Blogger Pud said...

I'm still so very sorry.

All it takes is for one "bad apple" to ruin a bunch. I would have thought your company would have at least given you a warning first.

Good luck to you.

8:47 AM  
Blogger Jod{i} said...

Damn...It is something hard to comprehend...It does sound like someone was covering their own ass type of thing...
Well...there are bigger things to tackle and wrap yourself up in..use the negative thrown at you and just make it that much better!

Peace

8:59 AM  
Blogger Mel said...

I agree with everyone...read the company handbook and see what it says. Most places have a 3 strikes rule, like a warning at least before termination! I re read some of your blog last night and I dont see how anyone could be offended. I would at least ask what it was, what particular post they are talking about.

Like I said before, what I get from your blog is that you are very dedicated to your job and a good husband. I think Lemurs might be offended but I dont think they read blogs. So sorry.

8:59 AM  
Blogger Teri said...

know what I find amazing? does your work career there mean nothing to them? You could have been the best employee and they would have fired you for sneezing wrong???

I will never understand the firing for the blog concept. Never.

We're here for you Mr. Fab.

9:03 AM  
Blogger Dramedy Girl said...

I still think you should look closer at other alternatives with them. Even if you are in an "at will employment" state they still really have to have (ggod) just cause. If it is all about the blog, they should have come to you and asked it to be removed. The blog is your private affair. At the worst they should have asked you to take it down, or made you sign an agreement not to speak of work...something. This smells verrrrry fishy...

I'm sorry this had to happen to you!

9:05 AM  
Blogger beadinggalinMS said...

Huggiezzz to ya!!

9:21 AM  
Blogger Summer said...

In the long run your company has done themselves a disservice by firing you. A hard, dedicated worker can be hard to find these days, not to mention your sense of humor that must have brightened up your office considerably. It sounds like they acted before they really thought about it. I have this fear that the same thing could happen to me over my blog as I work in education and some may just not get it. Oh well, I'm sending you some good vibes for your new job search and I know it's hard but don't let this get you down. You sound like a fun guy, keep the blog going and us bloggers posted.

9:24 AM  
Blogger maidink said...

If you truly want to find out the details of being let go, try filing a grievance with the Florida Department of Labor and Employment Security. State that you were let go but were not given the particular details of your dismissal. I know Florida, like most states, is an at-will state; ergo, you can be bounced and really not be given a reason. There are almost no laws (federal or state) that protects the rights and welfare of employees. That's why there are unions and unemployment.

If you don't care why, then file for unemployment and pray that your company weren't jerks and gave the state a "ineligible" reason for unemployment.

And if THAT happens, then I'd contact a lawyer. You might be questioned on why you didn't care what the reason was before you were denied. Just like anyone else, you didn't feel like adding to the headache.

9:24 AM  
Blogger ❉ pixie ❉ said...

OMG! I'm so sorry to hear that Mr. Fab. That is ridiculous. Could it have been the post about the lemurs? Perhaps your awesome post about the groceries?

That is awful. I'm trying to wrap my head around it.

9:28 AM  
Blogger Self-Proclaimed Supermom said...

That is HORRIBLE. I am thinking of you and sending a cyberhug your way :)

9:28 AM  
Blogger Bluepaintred said...

Oh Fab. I just can't stand it. I want to hug you!

I hope the person who was mad is feeling pretty crappy. I hope that you find out who it is so you can ask them whats wrong.

I sure cannot understand who would DISLIKE you though! YOu are the funniest , sweetest guy I know online!

Hugs Fab, hugs on top of HUGS on top of HUGGGGGS

9:32 AM  
Blogger Bluepaintred said...

I wonder if it was the Pink Shirt metrosexual guy... brandon....

9:35 AM  
Blogger Suze said...

OMG! I can't believe this. You never said anything harmful to your company or offensive here.

I'm truly saddened and sickened that someone could do this to you.

*hugs*

9:39 AM  
Blogger Finn said...

((hugs)) big bro.

Fucking coward. Hostile work environment my ass. Grow up and learn to deal with things head on.

9:59 AM  
Blogger Shannon said...

Well frankly...I think they made a huge mistake...you seem like a heard worker, and you have a great personality...all traits any place of employment would kill to have representing them.

Once again, I am sorry.. I just hope this all happened for a reason, bigger and better things are sure to come, my friend.

Hang in there!

P.S. Does this mean you can't afford to take me to Vegas now? ;)

(Just trying to make you smile)

10:23 AM  
Anonymous jolie said...

De-lurking to say that you and Mrs. Fab are in my thoughts. Usually when I think the worst thing is happening, it ends up being a blessing. You probably don't feel that way now, but you will eventually.

10:23 AM  
Blogger Shannon said...

Hard* I meant HARD!! Grrr =P

10:24 AM  
Blogger Tense Teacher said...

Something just doesn't add up, and I think your theory is right.

Regardless, we're all thinking about you right now, and positive that there will be something good to come of all this mess.

10:30 AM  
Blogger D said...

Thinking of you, MF

10:30 AM  
Blogger Nobody said...

Sorry to hear that you got fired. I don't remember anything in your blog that would have caused you to be fired. Maybe someone was mad that you humped that fridge at Home Depot, but that was quite awhile ago.

10:34 AM  
Blogger Lynda said...

Well, I have another comment all written out sitting at home, but it wouldn't post.

I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. You have never said anything bad about your work. If the company had issues, I think they should have told you not to blog about work stuff anymore!

Even if they asked you back, I don't think you really would want to go. Not after the treatment you got. It is a big shock, but I am sure there is a better door opening for you.

I am glad Mrs. Fab is a saint, because I think she will be behind you 1000% for what you have posted about her. Maybe you can get back into the blood donation field elsewhere, or some other worthwhile oganization.

I am thinking of you, Fabman!

10:43 AM  
Blogger karaoke queen said...

People are cowards. Someone was probably offended by some little thing you said and were too chicken shit to say anything to you personally. Sucky. Still, your company should not have fired you over something like this - thats ridiculous. You need to find out exactly why you were let go. If it was some silly nonsense, fight it because we all know you are fabulous!

10:43 AM  
Blogger Grits said...

Fukwits! Their loss is gonna be someone's HUGE gain.
Im so sorry.

10:56 AM  
Blogger Shelli said...

I think someone else mentioned it, but I will say it, too. I think the person who squealed on you is going to be found out and everyone else who was in your corner, will make his/her life miserable.

I'm always here.

11:11 AM  
Blogger New York City's Watchdog said...

I think you should fight it. I think you should ask how it was making your work environment hostile. I see no hostility here... so unless they think I'm you... then they have no case.

11:29 AM  
Blogger Ananke said...

Just heard about this while I was reading The Dramedy of Life. That totally sucks. I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. I'm not a regular reader but I can't remember reading anything about your company that was negative in any way. The person who got you fired was a complete asshole. They'll get theirs and soon I hope. Hang in there. I've always liked your blog and I hope this doesn't stop you from writing.

11:37 AM  
Blogger Webmiztris said...

that freakin sucks, fab. I don't recall you ever writing anything negative about the place you work. hell, I don't remember you writing about them at all!

lesson learned, I guess. that's why I don't tell ANYBODY about my blog.

11:45 AM  
Blogger michele said...

I know you're still in shock
then anger will set in.
However you'll reach a place
where you realize what's done
is done.There are lot's
of opportunities out there
for a man like you.

Keep your head up!

11:51 AM  
Anonymous starbender said...

Seeing as how today if FOAD thursdays...
I would like to give a hearty
FUCK OFF AND DIE....
2 the company who fired U over nothing!!!!
;]

12:29 PM  
Blogger Attila The Mom said...

Geezus Fab.

I'm so very very sorry.

12:47 PM  
Blogger DrM2B said...

ditto on everything everyone else said........but....what I am still chewin on is your statement that when you came back in from a trip to the car.....your puter was alreay gone! ....geez.....LOSERS!!

**contact a lawyer and get unemployment going ...it takes a few wks to kick in.........it'll all work out.....its ultimately their loss....

12:58 PM  
Blogger CanadianSwiss said...

I thought of you often today and I wondered what made them decide to do such a thing. I agree with the comments before mine. And I hope that whoever did this to you feels really guilty, because like you said, it might be that he/she just wanted to get you into trouble. Well, I hope they feel FUCKING SHITTY about it. I also don't understand that you didn't get a warning first.

I think I can speak for all your readers and say that you are a Fab guy with a Fab sense of humour, a Fab heart, a Fab husband and a Fab dedication to his work and co-workers.

I say: There's a reason why this happened, and it can only turn out better for you because you deserve better. They'll all be sorry at some point for taking that decision.
Take care, buddy and glamourous hugs to you ;-)

1:23 PM  
Blogger Orange-X said...

Don't give up Mr. Fab. Unfortunately we bloggers are not the people to function in an atmosphere where politics are calling the shots. Just make sure you get the true reasons and then a good lawyer to sue their asses off. Nobody deserves an exit like this. And certainly not you....Apparantly there have been no warnings or whatsoever. Nope, it came like thunder through a clear sky. Sue them!

1:47 PM  
Anonymous Libby said...

I can only say again what we all feel: THIS IS SO FUCKED-UP! I'm so sorry - your blog is wonderful and you have such a good heart.

1:51 PM  
Blogger Kentucky Girl said...

Oh, you have sooo got to contact an attorney over that. http://tinyurl.com/mn5md and http://tinyurl.com/my9h4 looked interesting. Also a copy of the Employee handbook stating what the rules for termination are should accompany you to the attorney's office.

I hope the person(s) that did this to you get their just reward. Karma is a real bitch, ya know. What a retard, I hope they read all these comments and know that they are the dirtiest dog on earth and that someday they will be punished for their actions. May God have mercy on their soul.

I'm sorry it happened, couldn't ever imagine what the hell they were thinking. But I'd fight it until they paid you a wrongful termination suit. Absolutely disgusting!

2:00 PM  
Blogger Pickalish said...

Holy shit-on-a-stick. I can't believe that crap. Why in the heck would a personal blog cause ANYONE to be fired for ANYTHING? Unbelievable. So sorry....

2:02 PM  
Blogger peters 5 said...

Mr.Fab
I am a friend of bluepaintred and I just want you to know that that my thoughts are with you, and I am sure that as horrible as things are now they will get better and im sure this is the last thing you want to hear but it will get better. Sometimes things happen good or bad and there is nothing we can do to change it. we just have to accept that this is what was supposed to haen to us so that we can do somthing in the future, if anyof that makes any sence to you, but I just want you to know that my thoughts are with you and yor family. It sucks but chin up.
Things will work out eventually.
signed peters5

2:21 PM  
Blogger ablondeblogger said...

I agree that you should fight this. Not that you'd ever want to work for the fucktards who would make such a shitty decision like this ever again, but you may be able to get some compensation out of it.

By the way, don't even bother looking over your archives or even wasting another second on wondering if you did anything or said anything wrong. You know, and we all know, you didn't.

This is just fucked up office politics at its worst. Simple, and unfair, as that.

I hope you can get some justice, though. I really do.

2:59 PM  
Blogger Motor City Monk said...

As a former practicing lawyer I would recommend you contact a lawyer just to see if there might be a case. You never know. It sounds fucked up and you might just have some recourse.

I got fired last summer and now I'm my own boss, doing what I was doing but for more money and I just bought an executive recruiting franchise. I know you're bummed out now cuz of the shock and all but might very well lead to better things for you.

Hang in there.

3:14 PM  
Blogger DutchBitch said...

Hey Babe! We're all here for you! And you are very welcome! I can understand that life must seem like a blur right now... I wish we could all do something to fix things! I am sure everyone feels that way!

3:45 PM  
Blogger JustMeTalking said...

Hi,

I just read about it at my sisters blog ... and this is really INSANE !!!
I can't believe people are THAT pathetic and petty !

Gosh ! I really can't believe it !!!
Humpf ... Someone complained ? I guess they did not check it out if it was true . And than again ... freedom of speach ...

4:04 PM  
Blogger CP said...

I'm so sorry, Love. So sorry.

Florida Blood Services would LOVE to have you. Of course, you'd have to relocate here, to Tampa, which I am certain would just break mine and Billy's heart wide open. *L*

Those fuckers. I will never give them a drop of my blood again!

NEVER!!!!

CP.

4:07 PM  
Blogger CP said...

Give me their fax numbers.

I'm gonna E-bomb the bitches from behind a freakin' firewall! I will email them viruses 20 times a day! I will send only hard sticks with tough skin and rolling veins to them from now on. Fuckers.

You know what? I bet you it was one of the girls you worked with Fab. The one you would least expect. Prolly all jealous she wasn't gettin' the hot lemur lovin!

Bitch ass ho's.

Go read my blogpost for today. It's all about YOU YOU YOU, baby!

I wrote it at 4am last night, after Big Pissyloverdoll told me in an email about what happened.

I'm not havin' this. They will feel the wrath of the Latina (pissy), the Pirate (Billy) the Professor (CP) and the Princess (me!) They don't know how onery we can git, now do they?

I'm calling the media. I want an investigation started!

CP.

4:15 PM  
Blogger Donna said...

Dude, that just SUCKS! Hostile work environment would be someone being harrassed. picked on in a bad way, all that crap. But a blog? Come on, that's just pathetic.

I sure do hope good things come to you man! You deserve good luck. You seem like a great guy from reading this off and on.

4:44 PM  
Blogger Lynda said...

**Here is the comment that wouldn't post**

I know you will come out on your feet, Mr. Fab. And thank goodness Mrs. Fab is a saint, because from what you have posted about her, I bet she is behind you 1000%.

I had a job I quit, and they cut my access in the middle of my last day. I got to go home early. Companies worry so much about privacy.

BTW, I sent you a text message. I figured you probably weren't in a talky mood.

4:56 PM  
Blogger Dixie said...

This all seems like such bullshit. I can understand it if you slagged your company on your blog or other employees or if you were blogging during your work hours but to fire you over a blog that you write on your own time? The Thought Police are live and well and living in Florida.

What's next? Firing people for their perfectly legal porn stash? Getting fired because you spent some after work hours in a tittie bar? Maybe folks will start getting fired because they don't go to church or because of who they support politically because disagreeing with the moral attitudes (read: stick-up-their-ass viewpoints) creates a "hostile work environment". "I can't work with So-And-So because of his lifestyle and it creates a hostile work environment!"

Don't give up what you love because of the pointed head notions of others. Keep being yourself. You'll land on your feet yet.

5:01 PM  
Blogger Catch said...

I am so sorry Fab...I think someone had an axe to grind....but it still goes to show that companies dont really care about their employees...and that is so wrong after 6 years of a good working record.

5:04 PM  
Blogger sEa said...

litigation?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? read your contract thoroughly. i know you are in shock, but don't let this slide. you must defend yourself, your freedom of speech, your right to be employed because your are a good person who just happens to have a thing for lemurs. (I'm serious. You must pursue this.)

5:07 PM  
Blogger Annie Drogynous said...

Fab, I just don't get some employers. You were a hard-working, dedicated employee and it should have taken a lot more than someone complaining about your blog for them to up and fire you at a moment's notice. It's always better to hear both sides of the situation instead of making such a rash decision based on someone who, sniff sniff, possibly had their feelings hurt by something you may have written. And then you said they didn't really offer you a thorough explanation. That is the only thing I can think of that you would have a leg to stand on if you ever decided to sue them. The least they could have done was warned you first. A warning would be enough to set anyone straight. It certainly doesn't seem to me like grounds for firing you. You may or may not have a case but it's something you may want to at least explore.

However, you cannot sue a company succesfully simply for firing you over your blog because you're getting paid to work, not blog. Now I'm not making any accusations because I don't know if you ever blogged from work or not. From what I know, I don't think you did.

Fab, I used to work in media relations. Turning this into a public situation would be the worst thing you could do because the media embellishes everything and you will end up looking like a horse's ass when their done wiping up the floor with you. They will distort facts and twist words. They will make you feel very small. If that's something you want to pursue to get your message across, fine, but in the end you will probably feel humiliated.

You already know who I think the culprit is but I do think it's interesting that the people from that office who frequent your blog have nothing to say about the matter. I would have thought they would be here commenting and sharing their sorrow with the rest of us.

5:24 PM  
Anonymous Denise said...

Now that just damn sucks!

Maybe you should rename your blog "Douched"...sorry, but "Dooce" is taken...and essentially you were cleansed from the vagina that is your ex-company.

I hope you find a new job soon!!! Good luck!

5:28 PM  
Anonymous Tricia said...

I was trying to think of any kind of reason as to how they might have fired you over your blog ... and well, office sabotage does sound like a possibility.

Is there anyone there that would benefit if you no longer worked there? As in perhaps get your job?

There's no way that there is anything that you said on this blog that might have been considered abusive to one of your co-workers. Yeah, you occasionally poked fun at them but it was always clear that it was a joke and that you really did like them.

What about other blogs that you guest posted on? Anything on any of them that might have turned one of your co-workers off?

I still can't believe that that this has happened to you. :(

I know that you will do fine in the long run and you'll probably end up with a job that you like as much or even better than this one.

Your bosses are IDIOTS for letting you go. It's too hard to find someone that actually does their job, is good at their job and loves it these days. It's really their lose.

And the Co-Worker that did this to you? They'll get theirs soon, very soon I'm sure.

5:45 PM  
Blogger Fantastagirl said...

I kept hoping I would come here today and it would be an awful joke....Mr. Incredible and I just can't believe it...

I think you should get an attorney. A very very very good attorney - and sue their asses for wrongful termination. Most places have a three strikes and you are out policy. Get your handbook and read it.

6:27 PM  
Blogger Antonette said...

Ok, I guess it wasn't a joke after all. I too, returned to your blog to see if indeed your post was some sort of joke. Unfortunately, you were dead serious. I am so sorry. Obviously dedicated employee doesn't count for sh*t anymore.

6:33 PM  
Blogger Maritza said...

This is ridiculous. Why how when what?!! Again, you've written with a positive upbeat attitude about your job and how dedicated you are! I'm so sad for you.

6:34 PM  
Blogger :P fuzzbox said...

That just sucks. Sorry about running afoul of some axgrinder. I wish you luck in your future endevours.

6:37 PM  
Blogger Master Enigma said...

I wish you the very best. My hope for you is that you get two weeks of somewhat franticness followed by an excellent new job.

I am approaching 3 months of ungainful non-employment. I would not wish it on anyone.

Hang in there!

6:56 PM  
Blogger Big Mama said...

Stay strong and just know that there are a lot of people out here pushing for you. You are an awesome writer with a big heart. Keep your chin up.

7:01 PM  
Blogger Mindless Dribbler said...

damn dude...awfully sorry about that...seriously.

7:19 PM  
Blogger Pamela J Weatherill said...

It sucks so bad on so many levels Mr Fab ... let's get you writing full time now huh! Everyone here knows you've got the goods to make aliving out of it! :-) *hugs*

8:19 PM  
Blogger CrankyProf said...

I want to know who did it.

I want to know who the miserable little sleaze -- cowardly, underhanded sneak -- who complained.

They must have been lurking. They probably still are.I can't imagine someone so craven wouldn't be reading, getting some sort of twisted jolly out of it.

Whomever you are: you're a pathetic and sad little individual. I'd call you a mental midget, but that would insult midgets. Be assured: the world is round, and this WILL come around to hit you in the ass karmically.

Couldn't happen to a nicer person.

8:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hasn't the big corporation heard of Free Speech!!!!! I am so sorry but am sure they are putting out the spin on this. Keep your head high, Mr. Fab & know that many in LSO are praying for you and Mrs. Fab! You have always been a brave man - don't let this get you down!- Love from Toothless

8:31 PM  
Anonymous ANO said...

OMG! Mr. Fab I am SO sorry! I'd so hire you if I ran a company!

8:55 PM  
Blogger kattbanjo said...

I am missing my Mr. Fab today! I miss your posts! Take as much time as you need. Just wanted you to know I hope your doing alright. I know it sounds cheesy but you have been on my mind today! CORPORATE BASTEDS!

9:17 PM  
Blogger Scarlett said...

I guess they don't mess around - I can't believe they took your computer THAT FAST! I used to be in HR and the part I hated most about my job was standing there while a terminated employee emptied their desk. I guess one way of looking at it is that you had a lot of influence on others, I bet you have leadership qualities that someone there was threatened by.

9:34 PM  
Blogger CP said...

OMG, OMG, OMG...

I am so pissangry that I am ready to spew green juice out of my ass.

I agree with SO many statements made here.

First of all, At Will/At Schmill. Eat shit, LifeSouth. Fab, you will win on the unemployment claim so long as you can say TWO Things...1) you were never written up for anything recently and 2) You were never given an actual SIGNED statement as to your termination.

I won a LONG LONG fight with a past employer who tried to dick me the same way. Turns out the bitch that got me fired was VERY threatened by me. She knew I could have had her job, IF I WANTED IT, and was out to get me before the heads and higher ups realized that she did a whole lot of nothing. She had them snowed, hard, but once I got there...everyone realized how little she did. She made the claim that she (get this...) "witnessed me stealing money from her purse".

'Scuse?

I make TEN DOLLARS MORE AN HOUR THAN YOU DO, PSYCHO BIOTCH! Why would I steal your money???

Loser.

Anyway, I fought and fought for nearly a year and then was given a nice fat ass check for wrongful termination AND big unemployment settlement/compensation.

Yeah. Who's better than the Princess, may I ask???

Don't you DARE rollover on this. Don't you dare take this laying down! Don't! Don't! Don't!

I'm serious. You have to grieve and then...

GET THE FUCK OVER IT AND FIGHT!!!

I'll give you til Monday, then I am coming over and we are going to make plans for mass destruction.

Or, maybe just cocktails.

WHAT THE HELL EVER.

All I know is one sentiment rings true over and over and over again.

If you remove your blog from the blogosphere, you might as well pull the plug on the entire internet.

Your blog is the reason I began mine.

You are not permitted to leave.

So there. Nyah.

CP.

9:53 PM  
Anonymous Matthew Didier said...

Wow... that sucks. I agree with everyone here...

I don't know what the laws are like in Florida, but in Ontario, I would be suing them for unlawful dismissal... Unless they warned you or gave you some form of notice, they SHOULD not be able to dismiss you like that.

Talk to a lawyer...

Sue and I send our warmest thoughts... and hopes for a better future for you Mr. Fab.

10:15 PM  
Blogger Belinda said...

I've been wracking my brain as to what legitimate complaint someone who works *under* you could have about your blogging. ALL I can come up with is that, conceivably, it could created an uncomfortable atmosphere for someone who is a very private or socially conservative person, if they are in constant fear of something they say or do at work being posted for the whole world to see.

BUT--even if that were the case, all that would be required would be a simple, "Hey, Fab: Don't write about work any more. We really don't like it, and it could cause problems." To which I have no doubt you would have complied.

So, yeah. I agree with those who suspect a personal axe-grinding.

11:36 PM  
Anonymous mixednut said...

What CP 9:53 said.
Hell, everything she said. x10
*heavy sigh*
I think I'm in love.

12:10 AM  
Blogger Chelle said...

I'm sorry...but I don't think it's the fact that there was a blog....moreso that it was being done at work...during the time the company PAYS for HIS WORK time. :( I'm sorry, Fab. (I hate it that I always think so differently than the rest of the fucking world!)

12:23 AM  
Blogger bon said...

I'm shocked! Admittedly I am not one of your most regular readers, but I know and adore Shelli and you and I get around and comment on some of the same blogs. These people and their lame "Hostile Working Environment" and they won't even tell what it was you said that is generating this supposed HWE.

There is a blogger-coined term for these folks... asshats.

12:38 AM  
Anonymous bitterbitch said...

this just made my migraine kick into tranqulizer mode. i have just gone completely "outraged mama in the principla's office". a kind of "mad ass all hell and the school boards gonna hear about this!!" pissed off.
you wrote on your personal time. if you mentioned them at all it was positive. and they fired you anyway? please. please say they have a product we can boycott? please??
and folks wonder why i just hate people, ugh, management, somtimes...

1:09 AM  
Anonymous Tricia said...

CP you go girl! I agree with everything you are saying. Fab has to fight this!

Chelle - look at Mr. Fabs post times. He didn't write his posts at work. No, I think this was someone with an axe to grind, so Mr. Fab needs to fight back and fight back hard!

1:12 AM  
Blogger Malnurtured Snay said...

There's a lesson here: Don't. Ever. Tell. Anyone. That. You. Blog.

Got that person's address? I say, "The best defense is a strong offense." Alternatively, "revenge is a dish best served with fists."

VENGEANCE!

2:28 AM  
Blogger Nixxie said...

So very sorry to hear this!!!! I have only stopped by your blog a few times but I have never heard...eeeh, read anything bad about where you work.

Sorry is about all I can say:(

3:57 AM  
Blogger Living in Canberra said...

Getting fired over your blogging is truly crap. From what I've read its not like your out there shitcanning your employer, co-workers or giving away the company's secrets or anything. While its terrible to be fired, at least console yourself with the thought that they must be arseholes to have done it, and why would you want to work for a pack of arseholes.

9:17 AM  
Blogger Sudiegirl said...

I've had trouble on jobs too - I've been fired from many. But I can't believe YOU were fired. You really have it all together, and it's their loss.

Let me know if you need anything, even if this message is after the fact.

9:27 AM  
Anonymous adena said...

I'm w/ CP, and the loads of others.

FIGHT, Mr. Fab....FIGHT!!

This is such a load of crap. SHAME on your former employers!

9:42 AM  
Blogger Plunky said...

OH MY GOD. I have missed your blog for a few days and this is what happens? Jesus, Fab, I am sooo sorry. You truly are fabulous and don't let "the man" get you down. I can't believe someone would do this to you.

4:02 PM  
Blogger Cheyenne said...

Heard about what happened to you through another blog. If I didn't know better, what you wrote could have been written by me too. Exactly. Except I was there 13 years. I still don't know what went wrong and I suppose I never will. My husband still works there and for that I guess we can be thankful. I am gone over a year now and it took me a whole year to get over it somewhat. Hang in there...

4:37 PM  
Blogger Karl said...

Sorry I haven't been around the last week or so. I read about your firing when I was still visiting with Snackiepoo, but then went to the BlogHer conference and didn't read any blogs at all while I was there.

I have quite a few blog posts of yours to catch up on, but I'm reading them in order. So I just want to say that I hope you're doing okay, even if you are (probably) still in shock over this crap. Your name came up a number of times during BlogHer. You know, with Dooce being present and all.

10:52 AM  
Blogger Jetting Through Life said...

I find having the freedom of speech without warning isn't warranted. I feel for you and the Mrs.

XXOO,
Jet

9:41 PM  
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